Last week in the news, Jonathan Martin, an NFL player for the Miami Dolphins was said to have left his team due to harassment and hazing going on from his teammate Richie Incognito. After watching the broadcasters on TV talk about this event, I felt disgusted. The broadcasters were justifying the behavior of Incognito, by saying that hazing is expected when you are a rookie and all of us went through it. I decided to write a post on Facebook voicing my opinion.
"This whole hazing thing going on in Miami is ridiculous. I can't believe these commentators/broadcasters are supporting any kind of hazing. These athletes are role-models for younger kids and if kids hear that their heroes are hazing, what do you think they're going to do? How can we possibly look at celebrities and criticize them on their behavior, but when it comes to an athlete, it's justified. Any kind of initiation to a new group should involve everyone on the same level to build a family within that team. No one should feel as though they are being forced to do anything, regardless of how old they are, professional or pee-wee!"
Once I had written this Facebook post, I realized that it would be an important topic to talk to my upper secondary students about. We discussed hazing and how it is OK to say "No". They should never feel uncomfortable doing something that a friend asks them to do. Whether it is within a sports team, at a party, or in college, people may ask/tell you to do things that you are not physically or emotionally ready for or comfortable with. I feel that all teachers and parents should have this conversation with their students/kids. Working at an international school, many students come and go every year and new students may try to get in with a group of friends right away, which can lead to a lot of peer pressure. This is an important topic that is not discussed until something bad happens. Make sure to discuss it before it is too late!
For those of you who know me really well, you know that one of my favorite shows on TV is Shark Tank. A show where hopeful entrepreneurs present their business, product, or idea to a panel of 5 millionaire and billionaire investors to try and receive money or partnership to help grow their company. I believe it was last season, that a man came on the show presenting his company, Postcard On The Run, which is an App you can download. Essentially, wherever you are in the world, you can take a picture of yourself, the scenery, or whatever, and send the picture as a postcard to anyone in the world. It is sent as an actual postcard with your personalized photo on one side and a typed message on the other. Being in Turkey, I thought this would be a good App to download so I can stay in touch with my family in a unique way. And since my grandparents do not have the latest technology for some reason, they get to see and hear about what I've been up to. It's cheap, easy, and fun. I recommend it to everyone. It's great if you are traveling, living abroad, or if you are living on one end of the country and you have family on the other.
On the last day, before we headed back to Turkey, we laid on the beach and enjoyed the sun. Right before we left, however, a small dog came up to us and wanted to play fetch and lay down. Unfortunately, the dog did not run along when we were ready to leave. In fact, he kept standing in front of the car, making it impossible for us to drive around. We eventually got a stick, threw it, and tried to drive off once the dog went for the stick. But our furry friend was able to run faster than we could drive on the beach. We eventually gave the stick one last throw and sped off as fast as we could. For over a hundred yards, the dog was hustling after us as fast as he could. He eventually gave up. It was a bit bitter-sweet leaving our friend behind.
Back at school, the swim team started their practices. After coaching at Sunny Willow and at UDAC, this made me feel right at home. So far, it has been very fun coaching the students. Although they only practice once a week, you can tell they are learning a lot and progressing on their technique and endurance. Hopefully they will have a few meets throughout the year to compete against other schools and to show off their speed.
Lastly, next weekend I will be traveling to Istanbul to try out for Turkey's Men's National Lacrosse Team. After the tryout I will update the blog on how it went and what the future looks like for Turkey Lacrosse.

